Hey there, so have been learning a lot about this new kinky toy recently – a wand dildo. Since I know quite a few of my other friends are interested in exploring new sexual horizons as well, I wanted to have a chat with you about how to use a wand dildo correctly.
First of all, do your research. Educate yourself on the types of wand dildos out there, from small and basic to large and performative. Read up on the right lubricants, materials, and safety instructions.
Second, prepare the environment. Make sure you’re in a comfortable spot, like your bedroom or a private space. Gather all of the necessary items (i.e., lube, wand dildo, towel) that you’ll need for a successful experience.
Third, turn up the heat. Before you get started set up some sensual music, light a scented candle, and dim the lights. This will make you feel relaxed and more at ease.
Fourth, take your time. Don’t rush through this intimate experience. Be confident when you’re using the toy – stroke it along your body, use smooches, and caresses. Try to make the experience your own.
Fifth, don’t forget the lube. To start off, apply a water-based lubricant. Reapply as often as necessary to avoid discomfort.
Sixth, enjoy it. Now it’s time to get to exploring. Experiment with the different vibration levels until you find the one that sets your body off.
Seventh, clean up. As with any sex toy, hygiene is key. After you’re done, carefully take apart the toy and soak it in hot, soapy water. Wipe the components down and let air dry before storing.
That’s all of my advice for using a wand dildo correctly. The key is always to start slow and steady. You can always add more intensity as you get a better a feel for the toy.
I’ve also found that stimulating my clitoris is key to having a great time – trying different speeds and patterns with the vibrating wand can give you an unbelievably orgasmic experience. And if you feel really daring, some wand dildos come with an insertable attachment for a more tailored vulvar massage.
One thing I’ve learned about playing with wand dildos is its an art. There’s a certain poetry that comes with exploring your body’s sensitivity with a wand dildo. An example of this is the power exchange you can create by letting another person control the vibration intensity. This can add a new level of intimacy and pleasure that can be hard to achieve in any other kind of sexplay.
Now let’s really take the experience to the next level. One way to do this is with a partner or multiple partners. Having someone else in on the fun can lend an entirely new perspective to your experience. By getting creative with how you use the wand, you can explore aspects of different types of sex, such as BDSM. This includes taking part in power dynamics, provocative sensation play, or role playing games.
Something I love when using a wand dildo with multiple people is how liberating it can be. There are so many different paths your experience can take. You may discover new fantasies and desires you never thought you had. Plus, as the wand moves through the different erogenous zones of each participants, it creates a beautiful synchrony of pleasure shared by all.
Getting adventurous with wand dildos starts with finding the right toy for your desires. Staring with a smaller wand is a great option to get an idea of how it will feel. Or you can go big and get a wand that’s specifically designed to take you to the brink of pleasure. If you decide to go down the latter route, find one with an impressive range of speeds and patterns to really drive you wild.
Another great option is to go for a special wand with a silicone-safe coating. Silicone is an excellent material for a toy since it’s hygienic, non-porous, and Penis Rings hypoallergenic. And silicone-covered toys can help increase comfort levels. Before you purchase one, make sure to double check the label to make sure it’s silicone-safe.
That brings me to the last point: make sure to use your wand dildo with the correct lubricants. Lubrication is so important when it comes to sexual pleasure, so make sure your toy is compatible with the lube you’re using. For example, you should never use a silicone-based lubricant with a silicone-safe wand dildo as it can destroy the toy’s coating.
As with every sexual experience, safety and pleasure are key when it comes to using a wand dildo. Make sure to listen to your body at all times, and use the tool that works best for it. Play around with the wand, switch up its settings, communicate with your partner and have fun.